The Chosen Parent Collective


  • Get real-time access; tips, and hot-seat, group coaching from Dorcy Pruter herself - each month
  • Rebuild the connection with your child, whether they are minors or adults
  • Learn to coexist with your co-parent, yes, even if they’re steeped in pathology

$69 a month membership with VIP perks and access

'How do I know if I am in the right place?'

Your child outright refuses to come to your parenting time or your co-parent makes an excuse about why your son or daughter can’t come.

You notice a change in your child’s behavior every time they come back from your co-parent's time.

Your child says that they never want to see you again.

You haven’t seen your child (minor or adult) in weeks, months or even years.

Your co-parent feels like a ticking time-bomb, waiting for you to “make a mistake,” so they can seize more control.  

All of these challenges are signs of an emotional cutoff. You're not alone. Dorcy has supported thousands of parents who were also alienated from their children.

I have good news for you: No matter how big the distance is right now, there is a way to rebuild a healthy bond with your child, that lasts. 

It is never too late.

Hi, I'm Dorcy Pruter.

Child psychological abuse is an issue very close to my heart.

I am a former alienated child who was able to reunite with my Dad. Through my personal and professional journey, I know what it takes to end the conflict of divorce and re-establish a healthy, long-lasting bond with your family.

I am so excited to have created this group for parents to be able to empower one another, in order to embrace their role as Chosen parent to their children. You are the parent who will do what it takes to reunite the family. This group is for the parents who truly want to learn what it takes, and who want to empower other parents to do the same -- and I am here to help guide those parents.

Being alienated from your child and dealing with a high-conflict co-parent is no walk in the park. It’s imperative that you have a support system in place to help you navigate this challenging time effectively so you and your family move from being divided to united. The Chosen Parent Collective is that support system.

....Who is a Chosen Parent?

Before I tell you about this special membership I created for parents like you, let me answer the question you may be asking—who is a Chosen parent? Is it me?

The Chosen Parent is the one that often has the most obstacles in front of them, but wants to overcome those obstacles for the sake of their children. This means you’re meant to lead your family out of trauma and into harmony.

Any of this sound familiar?

Everyone keeps telling you that it will get better. 'Don’t worry. Divorce is hard on children. Give them time in space. They’re not ready to have a relationship with you.' But you know that can't be the only solution.

You’ve been suffering in silence or you’re trying to figure out why your child suddenly doesn’t like you, but you haven’t done anything differently. You might even have been falsely accused out of the blue..

You have visitation or custody, but see how the behavior of your ex influences the child(ren) and you fear you may lose them. You want to prevent this from taking hold.

No one really understands what’s happening, and then you found this thing called “parental alienation” and you now know what’s going on, and want to do something about it so it doesn't affect your children any further.

You may have been alienated from your teens or now-adult children and are seeking to create a connection with them, but you won't wait for them to come around someday.

...If so, you’re a Chosen Parent. And I know that as a Chosen Parent, you are the leader of your family. You are meant to restore the bond of unconditional love that always exists between parent and child. Now let's embrace that role.

Join me, and other parents like you, in The Chosen Parent Collective

A community of co-parents who have been alienated

This coalition is essential to support you to claim and stay in the role of “Chosen Parent” …especially when times are challenging!

In the collective, you will —

Learn skills from Dorcy about how to parent your contentious child and support them to drop the programmed pathological behavior, ultimately to reestablish your relationship

Understand how to co-exist with your alienating co-parent when you need to, and overall how to navigate the high-conflict dynamic.

Receive an opportunity for hot-seat coaching with Dorcy for your unique situation and/or witness others get supported in their similar situations, during the monthly group calls.

All of this is essential to heal and restore the unbreakable bond of unconditional love that exists between you and your child - all with a support system of those who are in similar situations.

Get the support you need.

$69 a month membership with VIP perks and access

**Should you choose to cancel your membership, your access to ALL that the membership entails will be removed. Should you choose to re-engage at a later point, you will need to re-enroll at the price offered at that time. However when you enroll now, you will lock in the current price (i.e., your monthly payment will not increase when the price increases).

In the Chosen Parent Collective you’ll receive:

That's right. The Collective gives you monthly access to potent calls with Dorcy. You'll receive:

  • Strategies on how to co-parent with your co-parent while amidst a custody battle
  • Reunification techniques that work
  • Techniques for how to communicate with your children in a way that helps them fold in
  • Proven tactics for how to talk to your co-parent to avoid further conflict and de-escalate any situation

You’ll also have the chance to get laser coaching from Dorcy during the LIVE sessions and learn from the coaching I do with other parents.

Replays for all calls are available if you ever have to miss one.

Our Private Online Community is your go-to place to stop feeling alone and start getting connected!

In this online forum you will:

  • Connect with other parents who know exactly what you’re going through
  • Learn from how other alienated parents are navigating their family dynamics
  • Tap into hope and encouragement when you’re feeling down
  • Offer hope and encouragement when you’re feeling up
  • Get support with putting into practice the strategies and techniques you learn about during the live calls
  • Unlike many support groups, The Chosen Parent Collective is solution-focused. You’ll actually walk away with skills you need to make change immediately. 

BONUS: Receive special savings on other CCPI programs and services.

Register & Join the Chosen Parent Collective Now


$69 / Month


$750 in full

Take It from Other Collective Members!

Krista c

Chosen Parent

I understood the dynamic I was dealing with, but conventional advice seemed to make things worse. I knew my kids had been put in the middle but wasn't sure how to get them out.

Clarity on what type of communication is helpful not just for my kids but with my challenging co parent as well. That clarity brings out my confidence as a parent to express and model unconditional love.

It is so refreshing to hear other parents that really get it and don't just tell you your child is a teen and will grow out of their behaviors. That validation alone opens doors that lead to movement forward. There is so much wisdom to apply from advice given, successes and questions asked that help us to dive deeper and open our eyes to new ways of approaching things both mentally / emotionally and in daily action.

The collective has given me true support in multiple ways. A group of like minded people who are solution focused and understand what they are actually dealing with. Resources to continue growing as a person and parent. Hope.

carol diament

Chosen Parent

I'm a parent of 2 adult children who have been completely alienated for 29 years. I've always tried to stay in touch through letters and emails to no avail.

I now realize I have to show my children the way to back to me by being the strong, safe parent instead of hoping they will figure it out. I was always feeling I had to walk on eggshells in my communication and Dorcy is helping me learn and try ways to show up much differently.

It's a great group of parents who are all struggling with the same issues I am. Dorcy puts her heart and soul into every session and could not be more passionate about trying to help every parent reconnect with their children.

I feel much more hopeful that what I am learning will make a difference and help me reconnect with my children.

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*we respect any parent who does not want to disclose their personal information.

The Power of Community

I know how isolating it can be to face these struggles on your own. I know there are times you feel absolutely crazy when an co-parent is blocking you at every step and preventing you from seeing your own child. Or your adult children refuse to see you because they believe the pathology presented to them.

I’m here to remind you that you are not alone.

Getting support in a community of people who get what you’re going through is essential to overcome the challenges, shed the pain of the past and move from a divided to united family, especially when your family is living in two different households.

**Should you choose to cancel your membership, your access to ALL that the membership entails will be removed. Should you choose to re-engage at a later point, you will need to re-enroll at the price offered at that time. However when you enroll now, you will lock in the current price (i.e., your monthly payment will not increase when the price increases).