Custody Resolution Method

Software, Coaching & Consulting Program

Get out of the courts with the preparation you need and the understanding you deserve. Say goodbye to letting your co-parent win.

Are you tired of a losing legal strategy?

Here's the Reality:

  • For cases that involve a parent-child cutoff, most attorneys aren't equipped with how to present the case to a judge, and creates confusion for the court with an unprepared case.
  • Parents will find themselves in court for far longer than necessary when they continue to work with an attorney or attorneys who do not know how to properly present their case.
  • Professionals will err on the side of caution, so if you are being falsely accused you will want to ensure you are as best prepared as possible with your evidence and strategy.
  • The family court system isn't set up to solve a mental health crisis, which may require protecting and recovering your children from the actions of the pathogenic co-parent.  
  • If you are dealing with a custody evaluator, they may be trained to not "label" parents and so they ignore the child psychological abuse happening to your child. 
  • Conflict will continue to worsen when parents have trouble navigating conflict, which inevitably leads to more litigation - and children get caught in the battle field of the adult conflict the longer court is going on.
  • Working with professionals who aren't understanding of emotional cutoffs, keeps the family stuck in a divided state
  • Children in the midst of a custody battle, caught between 2 parents, are under immense stress, guilt, and confusion - and get hurt the most.

How Do I know what support is best for me?

Is Your Co-Parent:

  • Making false allegations, from minor to even severe, that have been unfounded? 
  • Using your child as a weapon and interfering with your parenting time?
  • Creating a false narrative about you to others and your own children?
  • Getting friends, family, and even professionals to ally with them in their false narrative that you are a bad parent or person?
  • Clearly causing psychological harm to your child, yet you're the only one who seems concerned?
  • Creating unnecessary financial stress (e.g., child support, assets, etc) as a result of the conflict? 
  • The one the court is letting get away with being in contempt, so you are left with spending all of your limited free time getting properly prepared to highlight to the judge what is actually happening--that you have no time to focus on how to repair the relationship with your child?
  • Elevated in this position that the court is 'siding' with them, so they continue their campaign of denigration, resulting in continuously getting what they want, and your child becomes more and more cutoff because of this?

Start the Solution Today.

We do the hard work for you.

Introducing, the Custody Resolution Method (CRM). This program is a powerful coaching and consulting program that both gives your evidence meaning and guides you towards reunification. Our focus on the impact of the children sets us apart from others who usually focus on the parents, and with a win/lose mindset. With the CRM, you can finally present your entire case easily with factual evidence, with a strategy that will actually get across to the judge, and with a newfound skillset and mindset that will also allow you to recover your child and take back your role. 

Goal

Get on the path out of court, stopping the endless legal fees & conflict, and to shift you out of a complex custody battle to a conscious co-parenting arrangement that supports every member of your family. 

Process

While we focus on the rigorous court preparation, you get to focus on what matters most: learning how to recover your child and navigate a high-conflict co-parenting dynamic.

Solution

With the right preparation, strategy, consultation, and guidance from those who know this family dynamic best, you can get the solution you have been seeking for your family.

What are some of the benefits of the Custody Resolution Method?

  • While it is not your job to educate the mental health professionals, we can work with the evaluators and therapist(s) to assist them in understanding the symptoms they are reporting and identify the solutions. Mental health professionals and custody evaluators who are not trained in assessing and diagnosing the pathology plague families going through the legal process and are unaware of complexities of pathogenic parenting. 
  • If you like your attorney, just not their strategy, the good news is we can all work together! We will get them up to speed on our preparation work-products and overall legal strategy, as well as direct consultation from Dorcy Pruter regarding overall best next steps for your specific case. 
  • You can present your entire case with the confidence needed to showcase a situation as complex as this. You can assist the mental health and legal professionals with showing them what is happening and why, versus trying to get them to understand in your words or going down the rabbit hole of telling them how to do their job.
  • You can get actual headway in mediation, unlike so many other parents who waste time going to often court-ordered mediation with a high-conflict co-parent who will likely disagree with whatever is suggested.
  • You have a dedicated coach, someone trained in this precise family dynamic guide you towards actual conflict-resolution, communication skills, and empowerment to take charge for your family. Learn the proven strategies on how to attract your child back, and repair the damaged relationship, getting it to the place it once used to be at. 
  • You get ongoing access to supportive coursework that will serve not only as a learning tool in between coaching sessions, but also support at your fingertips whenever and wherever you need it. This includes our renowned Reconnect program, led by Dorcy Pruter directly.

This program has 4 key components with life-changing results:

1:1 Team Guidance

Support from the CCPI team and Dorcy through Reconnect! Learn the proven roadmap to reunite once and for all.

An understanding and educated ear to support YOUR well-being.

All the Evidence Preparation You Need

Documented and put into a streamlined timeline AND case overview that lays out the problem and SOLUTION in an easy to understand format. 

Get the court to finally understand, and thus intervene effectively.

Direct Support of Your Legal Team

Collaboration with your lawyer to support them to wrap the law around the evidence and present findings to the judge in a way they can solve it.
Consultation from those who understand this dynamic to it's core.

Knowledge, at Your Fingertips

Access to courses suited for your needs through our online campus. The coursework is suited for parents experiencing the complexities of conflict and trauma surrounding divorce.

Heal from past trauma; learn how to move forward; and be confident.

What’s next if I want to explore this further and talk to a person in real time to see if it’s a good fit for me?

Here’s exactly what you can expect when you click on the button to explore getting the support you need, right now.

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On the call, we’ll understand your unique situation & together we will determine if we are a good fit.

What are the key objectives?

  • Present the relevant evidence that is easy-to-understand for the court, to show exactly what is happening to your child(ren).
  • Get the court to finally understand, and thus intervene effectively.
  • Enforce court orders and agreements with a pathogenic parent.
  • Utilize your court-presentable facts and evidence, assisting your lawyer in wrapping the law around the complex family issues.
  • Chronological documentation: the unique process makes creating a chronology of events easy to understand by bringing to light the patterns in your family. A win for you: No more long hours trying to create this on your own.
  • Map out key client and witness testimony to identify holes and inconsistencies in the evidence they have presented.
  • Credible evidence: showing an accurate and full sequence of events that demonstrates the impact on the child.
  • Create a visual representation of your case that is easy to understand.
  • Filter events by a variety of factors, so that you can narrow your focus when trying to identify or present key issues.
  • Learn the proven skills needed to solve conflict in this family dynamic and to recover your children.
  • Get the support of those who actually understand this dynamic to its core.

How would you sum up the program?

The CRM is a wrap-around program to help tackle the family court side of things, as well as the actual family dynamic side of things.

You can conceptualize the program in two distinct parts:

While We Do This

Preparation + Consultation

  • Robust evidence analyzation & organization into digital timeline
  • Comprehensive case argument narrative based off the meaningful data output
  • Consult by Dorcy Pruter, with you and your attorney, strategizing next steps

You Do This 

Coaching + Coursework

  • Coaching guidance so you can best navigating your situation + reunite
  • Immerse yourself in our core courses to learn the precise, proven roadmap
  • Become empowered; take back your role; focus on an actual solution

What does it entail exactly?

Aside from the digital evidence timeline and case narrative, you will get actual hands-on and ongoing support so you can focus on resolving this at the family level; as well as framework for court-ordered solutions.

Resources

  • Enrollment in Reconnect: The Alienated Parent's Reunification Roadmap. This includes six (6) one-on-one coaching sessions, focusing on how to co-parent with a pathogenic parent, how to rebuild the relationship with your child, how to take back your power, and so much more. Become empowered to take action and best navigate your complex situation, rather than staying stuck in the unknown and in the conflict.
  • Membership to the Chosen Parent Collective. Three months of active support and guidance from Dorcy during her group coaching calls, each month amongst other Chosen Parents. Get support and give support. A place where empowerment is inevitable.
  • Immediate access upon enrollment to powerful online courses--tailored to your specific needs (like the popular Higher Purpose Parenting class endorsed by Dr. Childress, or Reunited for parents who also have adult children). Lifetime access for support at your fingertips.
  • Lifetime access to private CRM Facebook group to connect with others in complex custody/legal battles
  • Provision for court orders, if and when needed, to order a protective separation + reunification protocol to best suit your family's needs

Process

  1. 1
    Choose between flexible payment options and plans
  2. 2
    Collaborative intake call to chat about your evidence (i.e., what is and isn't relevant to best support your case)
  3. 3
    Court preparation process begins (i.e., trained 'data taggers' will review, analyze, and organize your evidence in a concise, detailed manner, along with creating your overall case specific narrative, based on the meaningful data output so you know how to properly express, explain, and communicate your situation, as well as identified symptoms in the children based on the work of Dr. Childress).
  4. 4
    Constructive case review consultation meeting with Dorcy Pruter and your attorney, to discuss areas of concern, suggest how to best utilize and present the work-products, and guide you and your professional team to solutions that best suit your family. Implement our preparation and strategy into a wide variety of professional and legal settings.
  5. 5
    Continue to work alongside your coach and within the Reconnect program. Become equipped with how to handle your complex situation, in and out of court, for the short-term and most importantly, the long-term. 

Hear What Some Other CRM Parents Are Saying

I used Custody Resolution Method and it really is worth every penny. I can't think about how much I could have saved by not paying my attorney had I done it sooner.

Kathy Kilo

Chosen mom, gained custody

This is way more affordable than over 3 years of constant court, trauma and hell. And it gives you an actual chance and support.

Chosen Mom

CHOSEN mom, recovered child

My daughter didn't want anything to do with me, when we had such a loving relationship before. I wanted to give up, until I found Dorcy. I was also advised to wait around for my daughter to just come around someday and I am so glad I didn't do that and instead took action. I got the court to see what was actually happening to hold my co-parent accountable. Because of the CRM, the judge finally understood exactly what was happening in our family and we got ordered into the High Road program where I reunited with my daughter in a matter of days. My co-parent learned skills in the last phase of the program and I also learned how to show up differently which makes all the difference in the court system and with your child. I got my one and only daughter back, and she has a loving relationship with both of us now and is thriving socially, academically, and emotionally. I am so glad I did not give up and 'wait around' for my daughter to come around or we would have missed out on years of a loving relationship. Both programs changed my life and most importantly my daughter's. If you feel the urge to give up, please don't. Your children need you.

Alex Steadman

Formerly alienated dad, RECOVERED child

Just wanted to give everyone hope that it can be done.  Last week I won primary custody of my two children.  After a two and a half year long custody battle, battling the worst of the worst of allegations, they are home.  I poured my heart and soul into trial [.....] exposing the pathology.  I cannot count the hours I have invested, the sacrifices I made personally & financially, learning, documenting, gathering evidence, interviews, interrogations, evaluations, organizing, and teaching my attorney about all this.  I could not have done it without the guidance of Dorcy, Dr. Childress, [my CCPI coach], the Collective and the CCPI coursework.

The relief my children feel makes it all worth it.  I am now standing in the way of their mother trying to sink her pathological claws back into them.  Now, it's about teaching them the skills they need to maintain a safe relationship with an unhealthy mother.  It's amazing how quickly they pick it up when you make it easy and are in the right frame of mind.  Five days with them and it's like they already get it, they know who they can believe and who they can't.  They know who the unhealthy parent is, never lose who you are and stay relentless in your goal.  They will be there waiting.  The whole CCPI crew and immersing myself into the teachings of Dr. Childress is what taught me this.

Keep up the good fight, find a way, they need you.

B.

CHOSEN dad, gained CUSTODY

...My now 12 y.o. daughter was very angry, very rude, not wanting to listen anything, she was very distant from me. Communication had become extremely difficult. She had been made to think that she is an adult and should be involved in all decision making. She thought her mom didn't know how to treat her, take care of her and speak to her. I had been in court system for about 3.5 years when I signed up for the program. My divorce wasn't going anywhere, and I had spend nearly all of my savings. My divorce was finalized last month finally after much back and forth with the attorneys. My ex's attorney was just as bad as my EX. In all reality I can't say my own attorney did much to help me with the whole situation. I became proactive in learning about my situation and when I landed on Dorcy's video on youtube with Dr.Childress one day while randomly doing search, I felt there I can find some answers and get help. Since, I have gotten the coaching sessions and done the course work recommended to me, I felt I am back to myself again being confident, in control of my life again and making sound decision. I can't thank enough Dorcy and her team for all the help. My relationship with my daughter has improved as I learn how to deal with the family dynamic and what was happening. I am listening the course work again for the third time. It helps to be able to visit the course work again !! My EX hasn't changed, continues to lie to my daughter. I have learned what my triggers are and stay calm when situations arise. Absolutlely!!! Dorcy has nailed it... The first time I heard their youtube chanel, I said, to myself,, "OMG, there is someone who knows and described my life situation..."

Beena Patel

CHOSEN mom, PREVENTED LOSS OF CUSTODY

A Note from CCPI Founder, Dorcy Pruter

About Me, Dorcy.

I started the Conscious Co-Parenting Institute to eliminate what so many families suffer from: a cut off between parent and child. For the past decade I have been one of the most sought-after reunification coaches in the world because my goal is to encourage positive relationships and support every member of the family in reaching their highest potential.
Through my personal journey I learned exactly what it takes to end the conflict of divorce and re-establish a healthy & long-lasting bond with your family. I am a formerly alienated child who ended the suffering for my father and siblings, and myself. I am also a divorced conscious co-parent of two daughters and am the wife of a man who was being alienated from his child. 
I know what it takes to navigate the court system with a high-conflict co-parent because of my experience and expertise in this high-conflict family dynamic. My belief is different from the family courts: Children deserve and need a relationship with both of their parents, and false allegations are serious. Let us help you get to the place of getting the courts to believe this as well, by bringing to light what is happening in your family and more importantly to your child.